Shy dating help?

[chris89 (deleted)]

I just met this girl that i really really really like and she really likes me. i think she's just the cutest girl ever and we have everything in common, we talked for hours on the phone before we met in person on new years 2008 and i just was really quiet and it was driving me crazy. I have tons of friends etc and i talk so much around them but around her family and her i was kind of quiet which i know she didn't like it because i came off as i was disappointed with the situation or her... but i wasn't, this girl is Gorgeous and i like her so much!!! I'm having a hard time opening up and showing myself as who i really am... I was thinking about getting on something like zoloft or Effexor to help my shyness and "not so happiness". It's weird because i talk to strangers all time at work and strike up a deep conversation that lasts a while but with her in person i couldn't think of what to say i feel so bad, I HOPE I DON'T LOSE HER!!!! i'll be so sad, since she likes me but my shyness is killing it... i really need help!!!

[van0man]

.man, if you really like her, tell right out, lay it out on the line, as long as you don't say like you're a stalker and all. tell her that when you didn't see her or after you talked, you were crazy about her and that, you know, you couldn't wait till you heard her voice again. For you to not be shy, there has to be no things in between, you know what i mean? so, i'm saying go for it.

[warriorbeast]

`I know that feeling all too well I chat with people often but when I want to interact with a girl I lose my tongue