Hey all.

[spectra]

Just saying hi to everyone out there. Its nice to find a 18+ singles site that isn't about just sex! Anyone else agree?

-Spectra

[aries88 (deleted)]

It's too bad there aren't more people here though.

[ericisme]

`It's also to bad that a lot of the guys here are only here for ---. It's to bad that men outnumber women 5-1 where 4/5 of the men are jerks(only wanting sex) and have to steal all the women because they are better(in looks,smarts)then the good men on here, and therefore the women would ignore the less attractive men. Kinda makes these sites pointless for the people who really need them.

[axismundi (deleted)]

`In my university they have a social anxiety session... but my peers are the ones I am anxious about, why would I want to go to a meeting where there may be a jerk who is just there to judge...
this train of thought and more came to me when I read this post, just thought I would let my thought be posted so I can feel some better...
Hope to catch someone to talk to instead of replying to old posts U_*

[countryhappines (deleted)]

`Well I'm going to make a statement that may seem like an incorrect view but..... typical male behavior. I'm pretty sure there are women on here just for improper liasons as well. Some people on this site may not even be shy or have issues with shyness disorders. They just come on here to see if they can fill their little black books up with shy women or men only to use them for ------ purposes and/or other ill-gotten tom follery.

What those people don't realize is that they are harming and hurting. They could do more damage when they think all they are doing is having a good time. I certainly wouldn't want to meet a man who shows me this fake persona at first only to find out it was all an act to get me to submit. That would make me feel even more depressed and my SAD would probably go to a level of no return.