How does a chubby 40 year old virgin get noticed?

[PETER1908_PREV (deleted)]

I am 40 and chubby and a virgin, how do i get noticed to break this rut i in. I have had female encounters that only lead to oral only, we have no pay for --- out-let in place i live, and the dating adjencies i have been with only want to empty my bank account.

[veryshy4love (deleted)]

`Too bad your not local and bi :)

[a1oenesome]

`Hmm, 5 years too late and having left, he gets a reply.

Still looking on the bright side (even if it is a bit of a blow), at least he got some oral, which is better is better than noral?