not shy for a day

[scottiejames03_PREV (deleted)]

If we could be not shy for one day. What would you do? I just want to be in love. I would walk around and find women that made my heart tingle and ask her to go on a date that day. I would make sure it would never end. When the the day is over I would hope I would know that person enough so that I would not be so shy around her. I hope to hear responses. I would enjoy them.

[gardenersdelite (deleted)]

Shyness limits vulnerability. We would love to expose ourselves and discover that what we have to offer has value to the other. We just want the freedom to allow our little child to come out from within us and play without any fear of being hurt, negatively judged, rejected, abandoned or humiliated.

[abalboa_PREV (deleted)]

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[tenor]

Im fortunate enough to have my bi-polar moments. On those days, Im calling everybody I know on the phone and pester them to hang out. haha. In truth though, if I was totally un-shy for a whole day, Id get into so much trouble. Id probably become pretty confrontational with most of my co-workers, then flirt with every hot girl I see from the bus stop to the office and at Happy Hour that night. Go to open mic nite at a club and sing. and flirt some more at the same club. By then I guess the spell would wear off.

One time in 2000, I attended my company's holiday party for the first time. Im addicted to good dance music, though I hadnt been out dancing since '88. After a few drinks, I was on the dance floor and all the girls were giving me attention. That night I even got on the mic and did some karaoke and gave a toast to our bosses. That's some hidden unconscious extroversion that's trying to come out. I became a big show-off that night and the talk of the water cooler that following Monday. But by then I was back in my shell.

[skartist]

I have a lot of "Frasier-meets-Shawn-of-the-Dead" humor bottled up inside of me and I'm always itching to let it out. If I could be rid of my shyness for one day that is exactly what I'd do. After that I'd probably go downtown with the friends I normally feel too socially awkward to be around, exploring along new paths. And every pretty face and seemingly nice personality I come by I would compliment.

[sacoya]

`cheese n crackers , I thought I was shy . after reading gardensdelight , I'm thinking to myself , self maybe he should smoke a couple of joinfs or sumting , No I guess not , really i think , everybodies shyness are at like way different level , that's for sure , but those different levels make us who we are , that's what makes us special , LOL.

[grahamm (deleted)]

`If i wasn't shy for a day I'd finally be able to talk to my crush, i could hang out with friends even if they were with others i dont know. my opinions would actually be heard instead of wasting away in my head. i wouldnt be afraid to have fun and do things i love in the day or in public instead of waiting untill night time when nobodys out. id listen to music around people without worrying about what they think of what i like.

[brownprince13]

`if i wasnt shy for a day? that'd be a crazy day. i'd say every single thing i've ever wanted to say, n not give a rat's --- what people think. i'd walk up to that girl and ask her "hey... how bout it?". that'd b a fun day for sure.

[dannyd (deleted)]

`I would run naked through the streets

[indesign]

`I would speak everyone about my financial situation to find out how they react, would talk nonstop with people, would search my friends out and speak them why I'm silent at times and reserved.
Small things make my day, I'm doing them already, actually I desperatelly try to keep image what my friends think of me. Monitoring what I do and speak. I have reached to conclusion they should already anyway know true image. Only I don't know that they know.
I have false impression if they find out true image they would stop being my friends. While they already know it all and still are my friends, that means they don't make problem about it.
Now apply same reasoning to your crush, stranger from street or any person you want to like and life becomes better :D

[matlusin]

I'm not really shy just reserved I think that at times I'm hyper sensitive to the feelings of others almost like I care to much by way of respect I mean its just that people in general r self-centered so I have found that being nice or loyal usually leaves me on the short end.as for fear I challenge my own when ever it presents it self to me I don't like bullies so I could never b one but I don't enjoy the stress of assertion and would normally remain reserved less one pressured that which I love. I don't like getting angry however I wish I had fewer reservations I wish I could enjoy the pleasure of complete self-centeredness . B a rock star for a day

[indesign]

`Nice one :D