Develop into a ladies man

[audreycollins (deleted)]

I am a FY college student. Before I actually start dating, I would like to equip myself with all the tricks and terms of dating. I do have a couple of my classmates in mind, whom I would like to ask out for a date, maybe for coffee or a drink in a pub. I especially would like help about what to talk, how to impress, how to read her mind, how to understand her well and other such things, that will make my date very memorable.

[indesign]

`Thread is from year 2009! still idea in itself is compelling. How to develop into ladies man? Get job where your colleagues are mostly female. It's quite fun to work with them.
They mostly already have partners, but you get chance to hang with them 8 hours a day and speak about random things (avoid technical stuff, instead aim for kitchen stuff, outdoor activities or music, telling about your friends, family, children is great, express your opinion about other colleagues reactions or ask them about their mood or just blindly try to guess their mood at the moment by telling them and ask why they feel so).
Consider what you do at the work and in your free time important. If you are hooked yourself about how you spend your work/ free time then others start to sense positivness in you and they are more comfortable near you.
Don't show all your "cards" at start of making new friends because then they have only option to accept or dislike you (kind of yes/ no quick answer). Give them room and time to get idea (feel) of you. Then they can decide how to move onwards from there.
And really just go for it! Ask that person out who you like, at first times you can take it slowly, if you felt things went well tell them maybe next time they would also spend time with you. If they liked date they will be in contact with you. If not, then you really just have to move on. Because don't spend time or effort pleasing people who don't respect you (as co-worker, new friend, boyfriend, etc). Seek out next one and try again.
Theory and real life practise are different and in real life practise you always make mistakes, that is how you get better !