Bgold123, 44

Hey! My name is Brett. I'm 31 and work in the restaurant business. I am a fairy normal person. I guess I'm here because I'm tired of being lonely and would like to find someone to be with. But I'm specifically HERE because I get socially anxious. I don't like to go out to bars, and don't know if I'll ever be able to pick up a mate in a traditional setting.

I'm shy, but only at first. After I know someone I open up. And when I am in a place where I feel comfortable I will open up with ease. But with new people I have trouble getting to that point.

I enjoy staying in, or going out to a concert or a game instead of going out to a bar or a club. That's just not my thing. And I don't really wanna change that. I don't know if I'm an introvert or not, but I'm definitely not a ladies man or a player or whatever you wanna call it.

I'm kinda just rambling here cause I'm not really sure how to define myself. So just talk to me if you want to know more. Hmmm, I guess if you're shy too you probably won't say anything. This whole site if kind of a paradox if you ask me.