Calidoug, 51

honest, smart, simple i'm an honest, smart, simple man who is confident without being too cocky, not into playing head games, successful but not boastful, loves his parents and his family, has a few very good friends, an open heart (worn on my sleeve), is not afraid to be emotional, and *loves* giving and receiving physical affection. i've been told i'm cute, sexy, a good kisser, and a giver... but i guess that all depends on the eye of the beholder now doesn't it. i will go the extra mile for those i love, believe that chivalry is not dead, am a bit of a foodie, and like to cook. i enjoy hiking and camping, traveling, laughing, being silly, saturday adventures, scuba diving, people watching, wine tasting, fitness, running, relaxing and playing with my dog, and making those i care about laugh. i think what's most important about me is that i want a real, honest-to-goodness connection with someone - something i can hold onto, something i can protect and build on, and something we both can cherish.

i'd like to find an open, affectionate, confident, playful, sexy woman who knows who she is and what she wants (and hopefully that's me) you crave together time, but also need your alone time, and time for you and your friends. you love to dress up for a night out, but you can be just as happy curling up at home with me. you want to travel, are spontaneous and have tons of energy! you love to make others smile. you love to snuggle and be snuggled, and truly value and seek out togetherness and connection. i'm not perfect, and perfect is the last thing i want in a match. love yourself for who you are, and i will too. comfortable confidence is sexy. chemistry is essential, but so many qualities go into what makes someone attractive that it's just silly to try and define it here. let's meet and figure it out together. i'm definitely looking for someone to be serious with, but am also old enough to know that it's a process and takes some time - but who says we can't have fun a