Ersatzman, 66

As a child and young adult, I was extremely introverted. As the years went by, I gradually overcame some, but not all of it. Today, I again find myself not fitting in with my peers since, they all have families or are divorced - in some cases, more than once. Sometimes it's depressing to witness just how much of life has passed me by. I think only someone who has experienced the same, can truly understand and that is the type of woman I'm looking for. Despite spending most of my life on the sidelines, I've developed a wicked sense of humor. I think it has become my emotional life vest.