Jon1985, 39

I am a fun and funny guy who has been out of the dating scene for about 7 years. If I am home I am either reading or on my computer. I am extremely loyal and honest. I am an introvert but don't mind meeting new people in a controlled comfortable setting.

Most people would describe me as calm and reasonable and overall a great friend. It does take me time to get used to someone.

I consider myself to be weird in a sense that I do not follow the traditional norms of a male my age. I tend to act older and get embarrassed when others around me act out immaturely.

I do play a decent amount of computer games but I do not consider myself to be a hardcore gamer.

I love good food but drink sparingly and am looking for someone who does not drink regularly or do any other type of recreational drug. I am open to cigarette smokers and do smoke those myself.

My perfect match does not have to like the same things that I do but would need to be understanding of my likes and I would be understanding of theirs.

Currently I do work full time at a large bank but I rent a room in a house with extended family members.

I am not religious but do hold a lot of Christian values.

I do tend to ramble and go on about random things so if you get through this whole thing your awesome...

I am looking for a reliable, self sufficient woman who does not need a man to take care of them. She would need to be around my age of 29 and have good goals and aspirations that I could help her with. I'm not looking for a mother figure in my life but would appreciate someone who could support me morally and overall be a great friend.

At this point in my life I do not want kids but would be willing to consider them in the future.

Not sure on what else to add here so Thank you for reading this. I look forward to any messages that I receive and don't be scared to send me the first one because I'm going to have to talk myself into sending one to any of you.

Jon