Misscarilee, 52

im like an onion, they have layers i like to chat with someone for awhile before exchanging #'s or addresses. i would like to develop a sense about the guy i am communicating with before i agree to meeting up. sometimes this only takes a few hours, or days. i feel now days its a safer way to get to know the person before meeting. yes, of course, all of it could be lies.but i still look for the good in everyone and like to give someone a chance or two to try.i like to bake, watch movies, and go for drives or just sit under the stars drinking a margarita.i am looking for an honest, funny, sincerely open minded male who will compliment the other half of me that is severely lacking. i am funny, smart, and like to go with the flow, rather than rock the boat. i appreciate and enjoy life and all the little things that make a day worth waking up for. someone who is honest, open, sincere and can make me laugh.i appreciate opinions,as long as i can voice mine. i need my equal, not my better half. my man will understand that we both will have some baggage, but how we choose to carry that baggage is the key. i would like to build the trust, and feel secure with my man just by looking at him.i have 1 child who lives with me permanently. i work full time. im a bit busy but never too busy to chat or to go on a date. yes my son does require a little more of my time than a typical child per se, so i hope that if whoever responds to my ad will understand this. i am not looking for a father for my son. but i would like to have a good role model for him to see and interact with everyday. since he was born, it has been just him and i for the greater share of his life. i haven't brought home very many men for him to meet, because i feel i need to be particular. this too needs to be understood.