Looking to break the silence After years of shying away from people, I'm ready to come out of the closet... not the gay one, but, well, y'know.
There have been so many potential relationships I've passed in life all because I was too scared; scared of being judged, scared to express myself, scared of others seeing me in a new light. In reality, it's really dumb to be afraid of connecting with people, yet it's been a life long struggle.
Don't get me wrong, I CAN socialize and I do function well enough in the real world to get by. Like a lot of shy folk, I can talk, talk, talk til I run out of chalk once I'm outta my shell. But chances are if you find me, I'll be the one in the back room "pretending" to be busy.
So yep, I'm one of those crazy, aloof introverts. But for once in my life, I'm willing to give relationships a chance! And if my eccentricities don't scare you, please give me a chance... all I really want in life is to make you laugh and feel loved.
...I'm ready for a change, damn it!
Mystanobody, 37
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About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Straight
Height
6'00"
Weight
150 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
video games, television, target practice, shopping, science, nature, music, movies, internet, history, computers, cooking & recipes, fleamarkets, gardening
Body Type
skinny, slim, slender
Movies
animation, classics, comedy, indie, mockumentaries, steamy
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
hazel, brown
Hair Color
dark brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
single - never married
Have Kids
no - maybe with the right person
Education Level
some college, high school grad
Profession
Other
Income level
$25,000-$50,000
Socially, I am
the life of the party, loner, home body, dealing with OCD, comic relief, better in small groups, anti-social, a total freak
Food Related
Spicy
Personality
artistic, clown, conservative, freak, frugal, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, loner, lover, nerd, thrifty
Individuality
freak, artist, cougar lover
I'm looking for
fun, dating, conversation, relationship, romance, soulmate, the yin to my yang, penpal, friends only, miss right
Gender
Male
Music
Rock, Soul, Alternative Rock, Celtic, Christian Rock, Classical, Country, Dance, Folk, Funk, Hard Rock, Hip Hop, House, Indie, Motown, Pop, Progressive Rock, Punk, R and B, Rap, Techno
Hair Style
shag, curly, afro
Fitness & Sports
working out, walking, cycling
Languages
English
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645 membersA group for those who feel chronically shy in most social situations.
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