Phenomolous, 64

straight slightly shy single seeks sureminded s.o. Sorry, somewhat silly sort sometimes.

If you smoke, I'm not interested, thanks!

Anyway, I'm not terribly shy, just more on the reserved side and I am just not the aggressive sort; I am not the kind to hang around bars just to eye women. I like bold, take charge women who are not afraid of taking the lead in a relationship. In fact, I cannot think of anything more sexy, tbh. I'm looking for LTR with women in the openminded, Leftist mode of thinking. No smokers. When I say open-minded, I have to admit I am not much into b d s m or kink, and I definitely do not want men involved. I am open, but I've got a few limits, as I am sure you do as well. I am not an age or size or distance bigot, so don't let that stop you. I think there is a certain type of personality that clicks with me and it is very hard to find. I do not differentiate deep, intimate love from very passionate s--. I know there are women out there who do not want a LTR, but I do. So no marrieds or anyone seeing a man already, please.

I suffer from severe anxiety attacks and need a comforting and gentle environment to love and live in. Therefore I strictly avoid drama or raucous, loud people, and I guess I am also an agoraphobe, so I'd prefer to avoid big crowds of people, especially if I'm alone or expected to get friendly immediately with 50 people; that's when I balk. I don't tolerate smoking environments at all. So this means no smoking, indoors, outdoors, in a place with smoke collectors or huge fans, "polite" smokers, or any other kind of smokers. It makes me extremely sick physically.

I am looking for someone gentle, not totally reserved or shy like me. I need a women who naturally tends to lead. I am not entirely passive, and I enjoy the male role se---lly, just not in other ways. I realize that is difficult for some to understand, but it is what it is.

At this point in my life I prefer being alone than being subjected to a bunch of rules telling me to man-u