Sweetterry, 41

I'm frigid, shy, trustworthy, loyal, honest, true, faithful, responsible, romantic, hopeful, and composed. I want love and have high ideals about it. I'm a conscientious person, caring & careful. I have deep convictions, and I devote a lot of thought to romance and what it should be. I know this will frighten away most potential mates, but that's okay, because I'm very choosy with my affections anyway. I'd absolutely refuse to go out with someone dumber than me... Lovers who share my idealized perspective, or who is at least willing to totally throw themselves into a relationship, will be very, very happy with me. And I with them. I'm already selfless and compassionate, and with the right partner, there's no doubt I can be -------, even adventurously so.