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8FIRE2

  • 8FIRE2 Identifies As:
  • Gender: Female
  • Orientation:Friendship Only
  • STATS Height: 5'04"
  • Weight: 120 lbs
  • Age: 36 years old.
  • LOCATION Cairns, Australia
  • Last time online It's been a while
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My Description

I wear my heart on my sleeve.

I wear my heart on my sleeve. I just want to pour my heart out somewhere ... among people who are as shy and withdrawn, as it seems I've become. Without a flood of contact which would undoubtedly give me the excuse to hide away ...yet again. I was not always a shy person who holds back on emotion/expression. Time changes people, it changed me. How to describe myself? I answer this with a quote, "Life is not complicated, people are". I do not believe someone can be with nor without vanity. I've yet to meet someone who truly has no sense of self. Rather, those who embrace it and those who deny it. My opinion stands the same for those who say they are without ego. I have little patience for anyone who spends the better part of their day judging others in a bad light. I think most people are interesting with a little appreciation of who, what and why they are. I am an aimless ponderer, soul searcher ... my heart rests where waters run deep. I don't look for love anymore as I truly do believe it is a divine form of "insanity". That and I have no desire to change who I am. Love is in an ideal world, supposed to be unconditional. 'Supposed' being the operative word. I have attracted those I'd never have guessed and been attracted to those I'd never have thought of, so go figure. To wrap up a soulmate into a neat little ball of descriptions and preferences seems wrong to me. Who and what is of no major concern. Someone liking the same things as I do or having the same thoughts is irrelevant. A connection though, is vital. I come from a painful past with a violent background making boundaries and self-control a stronger mission than the pursuit of love. I question most things though not out of defiance. More because I don't believe anyone could ever live long enough to learn all there is to 'know'. "He who asks questions is a fool for a moment, he who never asks is a fool for a lifetime". I come from an extremely spiritual background and am not a religiously devout person in the slightest. However, I strongly believe in respecting the beliefs of others. Everyone needs faith in something and far be it from me to take that away. I like writing. I especially like rereading what I've written after some time to see whether my thoughts and / or my understanding have changed. More often than not, it has. I get annoyed by those who take things too literally. Especially the whole, you are to blame for everything you've been through. Sure, I can blame myself for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. but I will not be held accountable for any pain someone else decided to inflict on me. I am fond of optimism but by the same token I am realistic. When something is bad or sad, it is what it is. Laying a 'brightside' blanket on something hurtful only seems to place a person's emotions, capped tightly inside of a bottle. I think things need to be exposed and not hidden away in order to properly deal with it. Much like it would do no good to hide a festering wound beneath a bandage. At some point, the wound must be uncovered and cleaned. And I know there are those who will be left with scars. I have a number of scars myself. But those scars ache nowhere near as much. I am not an ambitious person and care little for that which cannot be taken to the grave with me. I do not fare well with those who are. I like simplicity and I like nature as it is meant to be. Greed drains land and people dry. I strongly appeal to aesthetics making art and music a constant fascination for me. In general though, my opinions and thoughts should be taken as fickle as my perspective changes with time and events. I set very little in this life in concrete. If you do wish to make some sort of contact, please email/msg me. I don't like chatting at all. Makes for crappy conversation full of impulsive thoughts and leaving too much gone unsaid.

About Me  (My Interests / Hobbies / Groups)


Hobbies & Interests
painting, computers, internet, puzzles and brain teasers, cooking & recipes, movies, reading, gardening, music, baking, sewing, nature, board games, writing, history
Body Type
a few extra pounds
Movies
animation, sci-fi, fantasy, horror, psychological thrillers, action
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
dark brown
Ethnicity
Mixed Race
Relationship
single
Have Kids
yes - single parent home
Education Level
college grad, some high school
Profession
Other
Income level
Less than $25,000
Do you smoke?
daily
Do you drink?
socially
I currently live
with kids, with parents, with pets
Socially, I am
better in small groups, home body, loner, anti-social
Political Views
not interested in politics
Food Related
Italian, Chinese, Japanese, Diet Every Now & Then, Mediterranean, French, Organic, Indian, Thai
Personality
introvert, artistic, loner, coffeeholic, total slacker, fashionista, tree hugger
Individuality
piercings, artist, tattoos, designer, ghost hunter
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual
Miscellaneous
hard of hearing
Drugs
socially, does coffee count?, let's see, how should I answer this (wink, wink)
I'm looking for
conversation, friends only, relationship, soulmate
My Sign
aries : march 21-april 19
Pets
Dogs
Gender
Female
Music
R and B, Hard Rock, Karaoke, Relaxation and Meditation, Heavy Metal, Alternative Rock, Rock, Hip Hop, Pop, Celtic, Jazz, Punk, Dance, Jazz-Fusion
Hair Style
straight
Fitness & Sports
yoga
Health Related
minor dietary issues, minor health issues
Languages
English


Groups:
Social Anxiety Disorder ; Avoidance Personality Disorder ; Situational Shyness ; General Anxiety Disorder





About My Match  (What I'm looking for)


Hobbies & Interests
movies, weather, fleamarkets, chess, puzzles and brain teasers, killing zombies, shopping, music, writing, gardening, comic books, reading, magic, taxidermy, coupon clipping, acting, nature, history, computers, sculpting, television, dancing, baking, painting, hunting, cooking & recipes, sewing, mime, video games, fishing, board games, photography, internet, cosplay
Their Body Type
skinny, voluptuous, disabled, fit, slender, a few extra pounds, large, slim, athletic, pleasantly plump, thick, average
Movies
fantasy, romance, classics, horror, action, romantic comedy, comedy, indie, animation, sci-fi, murder mysteries, black & white films, westerns, drama, psychological thrillers, bollywood
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
gray, black, brown, green, blue, glass, hazel
Hair Color
depends on the day of the week, a little gray, light brown, black, red, auburn, blond, white / gray, dark brown, bald
Their Ethnicity
Indian, Asian, Inter-racial, Native American, Biracial, Klingon, Other, Caucasian, Middle Eastern, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latino, Mixed Race, African American, Vulcan
Relationship
single
Have Kids
yes - grown and out of the house, yes - single parent home, no - and am unable to, yes
Their Education Level
high school grad, some college, ain't had no skoolin, some high school, college grad, currently in college
Profession
Plumbing / Electrical / Contracting, Construction / Craftsman, Internet, Transportation / Trucking, Entertainment / Media, Journalist / Writer, Agriculture / Farming, Food Service, Manufacturing / Distributions, Artistic / Musical, Hospitality / Travel, Other, Computer related / Hardware
Income level
that's private
Do they smoke?
socially, ceremonial smoking, chain smoker, only when I drink, daily, like a chimney, cigars, cigarettes, pipe, electronic cigarettes, no - open to dating smokers though, clove cigarettes, for medicinal purposes, cigarillos
They currently live
in a van down by the river, on a pirate ship
Socially, they are
a total freak, loner, anti-social, shy at first, but warm up quickly, better in small groups, home body, a couch potato
Political Views
not interested in politics
Food Related
Candy is a Food Group, Right?
Personality
introvert, total slacker, tree hugger, loner, artistic, nerd, geek, punk
Individuality
nickelback fan, designer, stache, goatee, beard, paranormal believer, emo, superhero, magician, vampire, piercings, farmer, superhero sidekick, mime, circus clown, voodoo practitioner, psychic, freak, actor, tattoos, clairvoyant, werewolf, sculptor, ghost hunter, artist, taxidermist
Religious Views
Atheist, Not Religious, but Spiritual, Buddhist, Pagan, Wiccan, Christian, Agnostic, Not Religious
Drugs
does coffee count?, prescription only
They are looking for
the yin to my yang, conversation, friends only, miss right, soulmate
Pets
Rats, Farm Animal, Turtles, Pot-Bellied Pig, Guinea Pig, Cats, Rock, Farm Animals, Rabbit, Guinea Pigs, Dog, Small Furry Creature, Iguana, Ferret, Bird, Rabbits, Horse, Monkey, Ferrets, Birds, Rat, Horses, Dogs, Turtle, No pets currently (but like them), Fish, Cat
Gender
Male
Music
Rap, Jazz-Fusion, Death Metal, World, Progressive Rock, Hip Hop, Alternative Rock, Relaxation and Meditation, Karaoke, Folk, Punk, Celtic, Rock, Metal, Hard Rock, R and B, Indie, Classical, Screamo, Pop, Hardcore, Jazz, Dance, Soul, Post Rock, Heavy Metal
Hair Style
buzz cut, shaved head, long hair, curly, bob cut, undetectable toupee, ponytail, flattop, caesar, short hair, mohawk, dreadlocks, bowl cut, french braid, comb over, spiky, mullet, emo, rattail, french twist, cornrows, straight, pageboy, faux-hawk, bun, shag, layered, crew cut, afro, straightened, perm
Languages
English
Caste (INDIA)
Don't wish to specify


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