Booksandcoffee, 38

So, I'm kind of geeky, an avid reader, a music lover, and a huge fan of academia, fancy espresso drinks, naps, and yoga. I can be pretty outgoing with friends and family, but I totally shut down when it comes to dating. I just can't seem to do it. The reasons why are complicated, and maybe I don't even understand them all, but it isn't something I know how to change about myself. Anyway, I'd really like to meet a smart, sweet guy who can maybe understand where I'm coming from and won't judge me too harshly, or mind that I'm so inexperienced with relationships.