Hedorah, 49

Anxiety makes meeting women in bars kinda tough... I'm kind of a homeboy anyway. Not that I dont like to go out... I just don't typically like to go to bars and the usual meet markets. I'm just too shy to talk to people that way. I know there are some attractive women out there who are the same way. I'm willing to travel to find one.
What am I looking for? Happiness. It doesn't take much money, just enough to put some porkchops and sweetcorn on the grill. It's about what you can give more than what you accumulate. It's about having work that gives you a sense of flow and achievement. It's about not letting work consume your time for family and friends. I'm looking for someone with experience enough to have figured this out, as it's easy to get distracted by shiny objects in life.
A good day: Go to the sate park for a hike or a run, head into town for a bite, pick up stuff for dinner: Chops, french bread, fresh pineapple and greens. Fire up the grill and have someone over to help chop the limes for the mojitos. Maybe head into town and catch a show. Maybe sit out back and stare at the bonfire. Go home, put on some soft music, and hope that someone special follows me in.