Intjvicki, 42

My name's Vicki, I'm a 29-year-old bisexual female, I have two young children that I have custody of 50% of the time, I'm recently separated and I am looking for a romantic/sexual relationship that is intimate without necessarily being intense in terms of frequency of contact. A couple of evenings a week of enjoying one another's company without expectation of continuous texting, calling etc outside those times would be ideal for me.

I enjoy high-quality, thought-inspiring literature, ruminating on the nature of existence, outrageous TV comedy, being by the sea, and having deep discussions with people who dislike small talk as much as I do, especially if we're walking somewhere scenic at the same time. I also enjoy occasional gaming. My music tastes mainly tend towards anything with a strong beat, such as metal and industrial dance music. I dislike unoriginal romantic gestures such as flowers and Valentine's cards, socialising in large groups, and most activities that involve crowds - meaning that I am a great fan of 'off-peak' outings to places of interest such as museums.

Ideally we will communicate by email/text for a while (I'm not big on phone conversations) to see if we have sufficient common ground before agreeing to meet in person. Any romantic or s----l developments between us would have their basis in friendship, trust and mutual respect, which obviously take time to develop - in other words, I'm not prepared to rush into anything and meeting up does not necessarily mean that either of us is obliged to take things further.

If you think we might be compatible, please feel free to drop me a line. Males and females of all shapes, sizes, races etc and any age up to around 45 are fine by me - it's your personality, intelligence and emotional maturity I'm most interested in!