Introvertedwf, 40

Well I'm assuming most people's situation on this site is the same either they are shy or socially anxious etc and so forth. So I figured what better place to be extremely honest. I've tried other dating sites but with no luck and I'm not really into bar scenes and stuff so this is kind of a last resort just to do something. I consider myself very introverted and definitely selective on how fast I can warm up to particular people. I almost feel an obligation to say something all the time otherwise I subconsciously think I blow it - dating almost seems like work sometimes and I'd like for it to actually be fun and loose and comfortable. I think I'm a pretty good person when you get to know me, although everyone has their flaws. I have a full time job, I'm open minded despite my anxious disposition, I like a wide range of things. I'm looking for someone similar in demeanor, attractive, compassionate, understanding and any other mushy word that most men don't list in their personal ads.