Shyatfirst82, 43

I'm a bit shy at first, but then warm up quickly and can be the opposite of shy with those I like and care about. But I'm mainly on here because I really like shy and quiet people the most and feel like I will end up with someone more long-term who is a bit shy or reserved in some way.

As for myself, I'm very quiet and independent, mellow, but can be rather talkative at times when the conversation is great and I know the other person is just as interested as I am. Otherwise I'm rather quiet and don't like being around people who are loud or take up a lot of "space" with their constant talking just to be talking.

I am extremely open-minded, welcoming, non-judgmental, helpful, caring, responsible, and put a lot of care, time, and energy into my relationships.

I'm also a highly motivated person and put a lot of time into others, and I am looking for someone who isn't afraid to take some initiative once in awhile to do something back for me as well. Or to show me they really appreciate the time I invest in them. I have more energy than for one person, but not enough to carry two people or be with someone who will slow me down.

If you're the shy-type who just wants someone who will try to understand you, care about you and your needs, help and support you in every way, look no further! Just contact me and be honest about what you want, you may just get it!