Massive Introvert I'm not sure that shyness is the word for me. I'm an introvert to an almost crippling degree, and I would really love to overcome that.
I don't know exactly what fuels my fear of interpersonal contact, but I'm terrified of it. I feel so afraid of being rejected by a person that often, I'll never make a move, and I fear that that terror will cost me what could be some very beautiful friendships, or possibly even great loves.
When I do start to get to know someone, I find that I am much better suited for as small a group as possible, with one on one contact best. Otherwise I will become intimidated and hide away in my defensive shell.
It's a shame though, because I know that I have a lot to offer in the terms of both love and friendship, but I have such a frustrating hurdle that I need to overcome.
									Slinger, 41
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						Boston, MA, USA
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															About Me
					
								Gender
								Male
							
							
								Orientation
								
								Straight								
							
							
								Height
								5'06"
							
														
								Weight
								140 lbs
							
																					
								Hobbies & Interests
								writing, video games, travel, television, comic books, computers, internet, movies, music, reading, swimming
							
														
								Body Type
								slender, slim
							
														
								Movies
								indie, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi, drama, comedy, action
							
														
								Orientation
								straight
							
														
								Eye Color
								blue
							
														
								Hair Color
								light brown
							
														
								Ethnicity
								Caucasian
							
														
								Relationship
								single - never married
							
														
								Have Kids
								no - maybe with the right person
							
														
								Education Level
								some college
							
														
								Profession
								Construction / Craftsman
							
														
								Do you smoke?
								no - open to dating smokers though
							
														
								Do you drink?
								no, teetotaller
							
														
								I currently live
								with parents
							
														
								Socially, I am
								shy at first, but warm up quickly, better in small groups
							
														
								Food Related
								Omnivore
							
														
								Personality
								romantic, geek, intellectual, introvert, loner, nerd, lover
							
														
								I'm looking for
								the yin to my yang, travel companion, soulmate, romance, relationship, penpal, dating, conversation
							
														
								My Sign
								scorpio : oct. 23-nov. 21, i was born in november
							
														
								Gender
								Male
							
														
								Fitness & Sports
								swimming
							
													Looking for
					
								Hobbies & Interests
								music, yoga, writing, weather, video games, travel, television, target practice, swimming, sports, shopping, running, reading, photography, naturism, movies, killing zombies, internet, gardening, dancing, cosplay, cooking & recipes, computers, comic books
							
														
								Movies
								romantic comedy, action, sci-fi, comedy, drama, indie, romance
							
														
								Orientation
								bisexual, straight
							
														
								Relationship
								widowed, single - never married, off the market, just here for friends, divorced
							
														
								Have Kids
								no - maybe with the right person, no - do not want kids, no - definitely want them though
							
														
								Their Education Level
								some college, college grad, currently in college, high school grad, post-Graduate
							
														
								Do they smoke?
								no - will not date a smoker, socially
							
														
								Do they drink?
								no, only blood, socially, teetotaller
							
														
								Socially, they are
								the life of the party, social butterfly, shy at first, but warm up quickly, home body, flirt, comic relief, better in small groups
							
														
								Personality
								intellectual, activist, flirt, tree hugger, romantic, punk, fun loving, geek, preppy, pirate, nerd, lover, introvert
							
														
								Individuality
								tattoos, piercings, pirate at heart
							
														
								They are looking for
								travel companion, the yin to my yang, soulmate, something REALLY hot, romance, relationship, penpal, mr. right now, mr. right, friends only, dating, conversation
							
														
								Gender
								Female
							
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