Jerseyguy4u, 49
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Loner with social anxiety looking for a nice girl.
Loner with social anxiety looking for a nice girl. I have been dealing with social anxiety for a long time. I have some great friends that are very understanding, but that doesn't help much when it comes to going out. I do go out on occasion, but it takes a lot out of me. I am a small business owner, which takes up a lot of my time. I build custom cars and motorcycles, and also do restoration work, collision repair, and custom painting. As an introvert, I spend most of my free time quietly at home, but there are plenty of things I like to do. I've come to a point now where I just consider myself to be a "loner". I feel that if I meet someone like me, maybe we could be happy being "loners" together! LOL. Also, I am a bit shy at first... my shyness and social anxiety make the initial stages of dating very difficult for me. I would like to meet a nice girl with similar quirks to get to know as friends first, and hopefully start a relationship with based on honesty, comunication, and trust. I am very easy to get along with and very open and honest... you can ask me anything! I have been through a lot in recent years and have been single for a long time now, so if you have a little patience that would be great. Please feel free to contact me if you would like to know more.
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'11"
Weight
160 lbs
Body Type
slim, slender, fit
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
dark brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
single - never married
Have Kids
no - maybe with the right person
Education Level
high school grad
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Personality
introvert, geek, lover, loner, intellectual, nerd
I'm looking for
penpal, relationship, dating, conversation, soulmate, miss right
My Sign
pisces : feb. 19-march 20
Gender
Male
Looking for
Their Body Type
fit, a few extra pounds, athletic, average, skinny, slender, slim
Orientation
straight
Relationship
divorced, single, single - never married, widowed
Do they smoke?
socially, no - open to dating smokers though, only when I drink, no - will not date a smoker
Do they drink?
no, socially
Socially, they are
loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, home body, better in small groups, anti-social
Personality
nerd, lover, loner, introvert, intellectual, geek
They are looking for
soulmate, relationship, penpal, mr. right, dating, conversation
Gender
Female
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